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Deacon John Writes

The common theme of today’s readings is that vigilant service prepares us for the coming of Christ as our Saviour during Christmas and as our judge and Lord at the end of the world. Advent is the season of special preparation for and expectation of the coming of Christ. It encourages us to examine our lives, to reflect on our need for God to enter our lives, and to prepare earnestly for, and eagerly await the coming of Christ. Take heed!” (Be on your guard) and “Watch!” (Be alert, stay awake, and don’t grow careless) The new liturgical year begins by challenging us to pay attention to endings and new beginnings because the central human experience is one of transitions and progress, from past through the present to the future. Today’s liturgy reminds us of what God has done in the past to encourage us to hope and work in the present for the final coming of the Lord to finish what he has begun. Hence Advent is not simply a waiting for someone who has not yet come. Instead, it is a period for enjoyment of the gift of Jesus who has come to save us; and who will come again to reward us. We begin a new liturgical year (Year B) and, with it, we shift from the Gospel of Matthew to the Gospel of Mark, the shortest and the first written gospel.

Let us remember that Christmas is about gift giving so use the period of Advent to forget about the material gifts and remember the real gift given to us in the manger over 2000 years ago. This week spend time considering yourself as a gift to the people in your life. Do not worry about the past but think about the many people for whom you can become a gift from God. Write them a letter, make telephone calls, give everyone a smile, help someone in need, talk to people around you, show them that you care. Jesus trusts us to do this every day of our lives. Let us remember this Advent the saying of St. Thomas Aquinas: “Without God, I can’t.  Without me, He won’t.”

There is a story told by Mgr Arthur Tonne about a newly ordained priest who was to deliver his first sermon and nervously started with the text, “Behold I come!” Then his mind went blank. He repeated, “Behold I come!” Still his brain wouldn’t function, so he leaned over the pulpit and repeated, “Behold I come!” At that moment the pulpit collapsed. He fell over into the lap of a lady. He got up and, red-faced, stammered, “Oh, I’m so sorry! Please forgive me!” The lady was not upset in the least and replied, “That’s all right. I should have been expecting you. After all you warned me three times!”

Tell that story to as many people as you can and count how many do not laugh or smile at the final line – like I hope you did! I don’t think you will have many to count.

Fr Rory Writes

With the help of God we will see the beginning of the end for this pandemic with the coming of the new year.  Christmas will be very much part of the experience for this year.  So it is a very important time.  Sin in its truest, deepest  nature is recognised in the doctrine of original sin, otherwise expressed as the sin of Adam, when an evil fallen nature became part of our inheritance.  Jesus gave us its focus, and a measuring point for our human behaviour “by their fruits you shall know them, good trees bear good fruit”.

Recently, those in authority in the Catholic Church are trying to make renewed attempts to make atonement for the grave sins that were endemic in the church on account of the paedophiles, who were part of the establishment.  Some Bishops have made public penance as an acknowledgement of the injury and damage done to the lives of the faithful.  The slowness of the response adds to our grave difficulties.

Now we are presented with a great challenge, and with the help of God’s grace a new window of opportunity.  We need to identify with Christ, when after the crucifixion he called upon His disciples as He tried to impower them for His mission to bring God’s salvation.  Forgiveness is a key component of His mission.  When St Peter returned to his day job, after the shock of the crucifixion, they had fished all night and caught nothing.  They were so confused and at odds with life; they did not recognise Him.  After the miraculous catch of fish,  Peter recovers and Jesus anoints him:  “Thou art Peter and upon this rock I will build my church”.

Today we return to Peter in the person of Pope Francis; his successor, and pray for him.  Some have been very disappointed with him, especially with his visit to the church in Ireland, we must look forward to a new era in the life of the church.  From morning prayer in the divine office today the scripture reading from Romans 8.35, 37 “Nothing can come between us and the love of Christ, even if we are troubled or worried, or being persecuted, or lacking clothes or being attacked.  These are the trials through which we triumph , by the power of Him who loves us”.   As we begin the first week of Advent, let us sow the seed of hope and trust in our hearts.  Let us be prepared for a new era with life in it, and it is only all of us together that can bring that life.  Please God, bring us the grace to begin again.

Advent Workshop for Children

Advent Workshop for Children:  On Sunday November 29th we are going to hold an Advent Workshop for the children of the parish. This will be held online from 2.30pm for approximately an hour.

There will be games, singing, prayers, crafts and friendship.  Come and join us to celebrate the start of advent.

We will need you to sign up for the session so we can give you the log in details.  Please register your interest by contacting Sandra on 07791627368, email [email protected] or Teresa on 07951082592 , email [email protected]  

Deacon John Writes

This week I thought that I would discover more about Thanksgiving Day as it is held on Thursday November 26th in United States and Canada and share it with you. It is a national holiday and celebrates the harvest and other blessings of the past year. Americans generally believe that their Thanksgiving is modelled on a 1621 harvest feast shared by the English colonists (Pilgrims) of Plymouth and the Wampanoag people. This holiday is particularly rich in legend and symbolism, and the traditional fare of the Thanksgiving meal typically includes turkey, bread stuffing, potatoes, cranberries, and pumpkin pie. 

                A writer called Bradford wrote about how the colonists had hunted wild turkeys during the autumn of 1621 and since turkey is a uniquely American bird, it gained place as the Thanksgiving meal of choice for Americans after Lincoln declared Thanksgiving a national holiday in 1863.

                 Cranberries are important on Thanksgiving Day because according to University of Maine Cooperative Extension, American Indians used cranberries as a food source, to dye fabric and as medicine. … Due to the importance of cranberries in the 1500s and their abundance, it is believed that the pilgrims and the American Indians would have eaten them at the first Thanksgiving.

                The pumpkin is a symbol of harvest time, and pumpkin pie is generally eaten during the fall and early winter. In the United States and Canada, it is usually prepared for Thanksgiving, and other occasions when pumpkin is in season.

                Thanksgiving is important because it’s a positive and secular holiday where we celebrate gratitude, something of which we don’t do enough of these days.

                In the letter of St.Paul to the Philippians[4:6-7] we read: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

                One of the best things about thankfulness is that the more you choose it, the easier it gets. The more you profess gratitude, the more you notice things to be grateful for, the thankfulness muscles respond to exercise!

                There are many references to thankfulness in the Old Testament. Listed below are some of the references and I invite you to look them up for yourselves.

Ezra 3:11.   Psalm 7:17.   Psalm 9:1.   Psalm 35:18.   Psalm 69:30.  Psalm 95:1-3.   Psalm 100:4-5.   Psalm 106:1

                Please include this Prayer of Gratitude written by John F.Kennedy in your prayers this week: “Let us therefore proclaim our gratitude to Providence for manifold blessings—let us be humbly thankful for inherited ideals—and let us resolve to share those blessings and those ideals with our fellow human beings throughout the world. On that (this) day let us gather in sanctuaries dedicated to worship and in homes blessed by family affection to express our gratitude for the glorious gifts of God; and let us earnestly and humbly pray that He will continue to guide and sustain us in the great unfinished tasks of achieving peace, justice, and understanding among all men and nations and of ending misery and suffering wherever they exist.”

                I conclude with two bits of humour: When I think of “Thanksgiving Day,” I am reminded of the story of the little boy who saw his mother putting a thermometer in the turkey. He said, “If it is that sick, I don’t want any!”

                The small resident population in a nursing home had been gathered around their humble Thanksgiving table, and the director asked each in turn to express one thing for which he or she was thankful. Thanks were expressed for a home in which to stay, families, etc. One little old lady, when her turn came, said, “I thank the Lord for two perfectly good teeth left in my mouth, one in my upper jaw and one in my lower jaw. They match so well that I can chew my food.”

Fr Rory Writes

The Feast of Christ the King:  In time this will be the greatest Feast in the church’s year.  I leave the question why?

Thanks be to God, and again thanks be to God.  The first one is for the vaccine for the coronavirus which holds out light for the end of the tunnel.  The second one is for the return of my driver’s licence.  Also, thanks be to God, my insurance has not cost me an arm and a leg.  I hope and pray this will help me on the road.

On that road are two essentials:

One: Belonging:  Through the waters of baptism we belong to Jesus who has come down from heaven for our salvation.  Recognising the implications and the effects of the coronavirus can help us with the reality of the effects of sin or evil and help us deal with its consequences.  In my heart I have a constant conversation.  It focuses us upon the words “responsibility and reasonable”.  Alongside these are the essential elements a) human dignity and b) by their fruits you shall know them.

Two: Nourishment:  We see the best expression of this in providing food for our bodies, keeping the shops open and the food flowing.  I am hugely impressed by all the people who go the extra mile, indeed miles to feed those in need, they put me to shame.  When it comes to spiritual nourishment in this picture, improving this bleakness, and I have to include myself very much in this picture.  This is certainly our challenge.  This challenge has been with us for the past fifty years, and with the closing of seminary after seminary we will soon have to make an attempt to answer that question.

Our focus must be “The love of God” as first and foremost and forever.  Please God, we may be able to do this and the greatest time for us to begin is here and now.  The first week in advent begins at the end of this week.  Please God, may we make this journey truly worthwhile as we continue on our way.  Our true home is in heaven.

To be continued ………………

All Welcomers & Stewards

All WELCOMERS and STEWARDS are warmly invited to join a Digital Forum on Thursday 19th November at 7.00pm. We will explore the successes and challenges you have experienced in your roles during the pandemic, as well as celebrating all that you do!

Please email the Inclusion Adviser at [email protected] if you wish to be involved, so a link to join the Forum can be sent to you.

Deacon John Writes

We are nearing the end of this liturgical year. Next weekend with the Feast of Christ The King we will be at the end of the Church’s year. The following weekend, November 29th, will be the first Sunday of Advent and we move into Year B cycle of readings. Having said all that the readings for this weekend, November 15th, of the work we must in order to reach Heaven. These readings tell us to use the talents God gave us in such a way that when we die the Lord will say to us “Well done, my good and faithful servant!… Come and share the joy of your master”, words given us by St. Matthew in the Gospel.

The first reading from the Book of Proverbs feeds us with the wonderful idea that we should imitate the work of a loyal and faithful wife who brings out the goodness in everyone as she tends to the poor and needy.              

The Psalmist sings about the worth of the Lord’s faithful servants and how we can obtain happiness and joy in this life and the next. St. Paul in his letter to the Thessalonians tells us all to build everyone up whom we encounter in the coming weeks so that we will all be “children of the light” and so when Jesus comes we will be ready to greet him.

The parable of the talents challenges us to do something positive, constructive and life-affirming with our talents here and now. Yes, we can all do this in our homes and families and also in our parish. If you don’t already do this then perhaps you would consider offering yourself to share in the various ministries such as Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion, Reader, Usher, singer in the choir, volunteer to help with activities such as Church cleaner or flower arranging or anywhere where help is needed. Please give your name to the secretary, Jackie, who is in the Parish Office on Monday, Wednesday and Friday mornings. (Telephone 01323 486280 with answerphone). We have all been given at least one talent – the gift of faith – and it is our responsibility to work with that gift.  So, please, put your faith to work and help it to bear fruit in the Polegate and Hailsham communities.

With my love and prayers. DJ

Fr Rory Writes

Please God, a real ray of light is appearing with the announcement that a vaccine for protection against the coronavirus, which is fit for purpose, is on the horizon.  This vaccine has received the necessary assessment of its potential and the pitfalls that surround it.  Having heard much of the commentary, my compass remains firmly…… Please God.

Live and learn; the capacity to never learn is real.  When a final post-mortem on this episode with the coronavirus is carried out, it will reveal that some major afflictions might have been avoided.  Some great sense of loss and emotional damage and injury will be a legacy.  From the beginning I have recognised the reality of evil that accompanies this and indeed all of the viruses.  The capacity to turn all things to good is part of the legacy that has been left to us by Jesus.  Conscious of my failures makes me very sad.  Our failures as a parish community gives us a real opportunity to live and learn together.  Let us begin to reach out to prepare for, and to embrace the opportunity that will now come our way.

When I came to this parish, I introduced “Leaven Groups”, which I hoped would serve our parishes and build up our communities.  I still believe that this is possible.   For different reasons, and the loss of some great parishioners, has left us with a lot to do.  We reached a place where “A Missing Link” to help with communication was being prepared.  Prior to this lockdown progress was being made, and we will return to this.  During lockdown the Great Feast of Christ the King will pass and Fr Kieran will  help me with the celebration this year. Then a new Advent, when I hope and pray we can begin again to live a new life of faith.

Speaking of prayers; and with my heart and soul focused upon them, a great, great sadness.  Noelle, a real treasure in our parish has died.  After a long, long battle with cancer, shared by Marianne Patel, who died two years ago.  They were outstanding witnesses to our faith and above all life.  They battled for the greater part silently with it, with strong mutual support.  Noelle had just accepted to be chair person of our Leaven Group, and then she received this devastating news.  She quietly battled; and what a battle this year has turned out to be.  Consolation, she has united with her own and our family of saints, who have reached their true home which awaits us in heaven.

Her husband, Brian, and children, Aiden and Rosin (only again for the pandemic) would have celebrated her First Holy Communion this year.  Please God, a legacy of inspiration is left to us from Marianne and Noelle that will inspire us to build better liturgies and to communicate the gifts that faith can bring.   At this time I know you would just want me to let them know that we want to offer all the love and support that our parish could bring to them at this most difficult time.