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Advent Workshop for Children: On Sunday November 29th we are going to hold an Advent Workshop for the children of the parish. This will be held online from 2.30pm for approximately an hour.
There will be games, singing, prayers, crafts and friendship. Come and join us to celebrate the start of advent.
We will need you to sign up for the session so we can give you the log in details. Please register your interest by contacting Sandra on 07791627368, email sandraforte40@gmail.com or Teresa on 07951082592 , email tpalmer2205@gmail.com
This week I thought that I would discover more about Thanksgiving Day as it is held on Thursday November 26th in United States and Canada and share it with you. It is a national holiday and celebrates the harvest and other blessings of the past year. Americans generally believe that their Thanksgiving is modelled on a 1621 harvest feast shared by the English colonists (Pilgrims) of Plymouth and the Wampanoag people. This holiday is particularly rich in legend and symbolism, and the traditional fare of the Thanksgiving meal typically includes turkey, bread stuffing, potatoes, cranberries, and pumpkin pie.
A writer called Bradford wrote about how the colonists had hunted wild turkeys during the autumn of 1621 and since turkey is a uniquely American bird, it gained place as the Thanksgiving meal of choice for Americans after Lincoln declared Thanksgiving a national holiday in 1863.
Cranberries are important on Thanksgiving Day because according to University of Maine Cooperative Extension, American Indians used cranberries as a food source, to dye fabric and as medicine. … Due to the importance of cranberries in the 1500s and their abundance, it is believed that the pilgrims and the American Indians would have eaten them at the first Thanksgiving.
The pumpkin is a symbol of harvest time, and pumpkin pie is generally eaten during the fall and early winter. In the United States and Canada, it is usually prepared for Thanksgiving, and other occasions when pumpkin is in season.
Thanksgiving is important because it’s a positive and secular holiday where we celebrate gratitude, something of which we don’t do enough of these days.
In the letter of St.Paul to the Philippians[4:6-7] we read: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
One of the best things about thankfulness is that the more you choose it, the easier it gets. The more you profess gratitude, the more you notice things to be grateful for, the thankfulness muscles respond to exercise!
There are many references to thankfulness in the Old Testament. Listed below are some of the references and I invite you to look them up for yourselves.
Ezra 3:11. Psalm 7:17. Psalm 9:1. Psalm 35:18. Psalm 69:30. Psalm 95:1-3. Psalm 100:4-5. Psalm 106:1
Please include this Prayer of Gratitude written by John F.Kennedy in your prayers this week: “Let us therefore proclaim our gratitude to Providence for manifold blessings—let us be humbly thankful for inherited ideals—and let us resolve to share those blessings and those ideals with our fellow human beings throughout the world. On that (this) day let us gather in sanctuaries dedicated to worship and in homes blessed by family affection to express our gratitude for the glorious gifts of God; and let us earnestly and humbly pray that He will continue to guide and sustain us in the great unfinished tasks of achieving peace, justice, and understanding among all men and nations and of ending misery and suffering wherever they exist.”
I conclude with two bits of humour: When I think of “Thanksgiving Day,” I am reminded of the story of the little boy who saw his mother putting a thermometer in the turkey. He said, “If it is that sick, I don’t want any!”
The small resident population in a nursing home had been gathered around their humble Thanksgiving table, and the director asked each in turn to express one thing for which he or she was thankful. Thanks were expressed for a home in which to stay, families, etc. One little old lady, when her turn came, said, “I thank the Lord for two perfectly good teeth left in my mouth, one in my upper jaw and one in my lower jaw. They match so well that I can chew my food.”
Private Prayer: St Wilfrid’s Church will be open for private prayer on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, 9am-11am. Please could we ask that you sign in on arrival and wear your own masks.
All WELCOMERS and STEWARDS are warmly invited to join a Digital Forum on Thursday 19th November at 7.00pm. We will explore the successes and challenges you have experienced in your roles during the pandemic, as well as celebrating all that you do!
Please email the Inclusion Adviser at margaret.fraher@abdiocese.org.uk if you wish to be involved, so a link to join the Forum can be sent to you.
We are nearing the end of this liturgical year. Next weekend with the Feast of Christ The King we will be at the end of the Church’s year. The following weekend, November 29th, will be the first Sunday of Advent and we move into Year B cycle of readings. Having said all that the readings for this weekend, November 15th, of the work we must in order to reach Heaven. These readings tell us to use the talents God gave us in such a way that when we die the Lord will say to us “Well done, my good and faithful servant!… Come and share the joy of your master”, words given us by St. Matthew in the Gospel.
The first reading from the Book of Proverbs feeds us with the wonderful idea that we should imitate the work of a loyal and faithful wife who brings out the goodness in everyone as she tends to the poor and needy.
The Psalmist sings about the worth of the Lord’s faithful servants and how we can obtain happiness and joy in this life and the next. St. Paul in his letter to the Thessalonians tells us all to build everyone up whom we encounter in the coming weeks so that we will all be “children of the light” and so when Jesus comes we will be ready to greet him.
The parable of the talents challenges us to do something positive, constructive and life-affirming with our talents here and now. Yes, we can all do this in our homes and families and also in our parish. If you don’t already do this then perhaps you would consider offering yourself to share in the various ministries such as Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion, Reader, Usher, singer in the choir, volunteer to help with activities such as Church cleaner or flower arranging or anywhere where help is needed. Please give your name to the secretary, Jackie, who is in the Parish Office on Monday, Wednesday and Friday mornings. (Telephone 01323 486280 with answerphone). We have all been given at least one talent – the gift of faith – and it is our responsibility to work with that gift. So, please, put your faith to work and help it to bear fruit in the Polegate and Hailsham communities.
With my love and prayers. DJ
Remembrance Sunday is always held on the Sunday nearest to 11th November, Armistice Day, the anniversary of the end of hostilities in the first World War at 11am in 1918. 11th November is also the feast day of St Martin of Tours – the soldier who became a saint. He served in the Roman cavalry in Gaul, but left military service at some point prior to 361. The story is related that when he was on duty one bitterly cold night he took his sword and, after cutting his soldier’s cloak in two, gave half of his cloak to a beggar on the roadside. Later that night Martin dreamed that he had given half of his soldier’s cloak to Christ.
We all know that our world today is existing in very troubled times. It is very important that we nurture our Christian hope in times like these. No matter how hard or threatening things become, it is very important that we continue to live our lives in hope. The central Christian message is a story of hope. God in the person of Christ was crucified – but God raised Jesus from the dead. What was true for Jesus, can be true also for us.
God’s inclusive love, as revealed to us in Jesus Christ, is what we are all about. May God continue to bless you all as you seek to further the good news of the gospel of Jesus Christ through love of God and our neighbour, as you live out that love here in the Eastbourne area and beyond in our very needy and troubled world.
The prayer of consecration of the gifts of bread and wine ends with the words: “Do this in memory of me.” ,These words were spoken by one who will never forget us, never abandon us, never overlook us. As our Lord remembers us, we need to remember him. His teachings. His miracles. His mercy. His example.
This is part of our prayer during this month of November as we remember those we love, those we have lost — but also remembering and praying for those we don’t even know. This year due to the trouble caused by Covid-19, in a departure from our usual practice of entering names ourselves of those we wish to be remembered please phone the Parish secretary, Jackie, and leave the names you wish to be added and I will ensure that they are added regularly during November. As we pray for those we love in this month of November we ask God to increase our trust that all will be well. Our faith tells us that when we die we will be safe in the hands of God.
Let us now pause in silence for 2 Minutes as we remember all those who have died in war and also those whose names are in the Book of Remembrance.
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When the Irish writer Frank McCourt died, Mitch Albom, a friend of his, wrote: “Smiling is the best cradle in which to rock your memories.” So, as you recall your memories of those you love, do try to ensure that they make you smile.
Let us pray: May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
Godly Play: Godly Play is a creative and engaging way of praying with children, young people and even adults! Telling stories helps us explore God’s story, Bible stories, our own story, and where we fit in to it all. Are you involved with, or interested in Godly Play?
Join members of the Diocesan Formation Team on Zoom, on Saturday 21st November at 10.30am. Please contact rosie.read@abdiocese.org.uk for booking information.
St George’s Book of Remembrance: As usual the Memorial book will be placed near the altar. However, due to the Coronavirus this year we will unfortunately not be able to invite our parishioners to add the names of their deceased friends or relatives. If you would like your friends/relatives names added to this book please email or send to the office.
St Wilfrid`s Book of Remembrance: will be placed on the altar as in the past but you will not be able to enter the details of those you wish us to pray for. Please contact Jean Barham-Wyatt by phone or email and she will enter the names for you. Tel: 842824 and leave a message or email: jeanbarham21@gmail.com
Monday Nov 2nd is All Souls’ Day and Mass at St George’s will be 10am followed by Deacon John blessing graves in the Memorial Garden and then at Willingdon Cemetery. Mass at St Wilfrid’s will be 11.30am. Fr Rory will celebrate the Mass for St Wilfrid’s Community. Please inform Margaret Piegrome on 870990 if you wish to attend the 10am Mass at St. George’s On All Souls’ Day.
