Author: Jacky

Fr Rory Writes

The Tenth Station:  Jesus is stripped of His garments.  “We adore thee O Christ and we praise thee, because by your Holy Cross you have redeemed the World”.

When we began the Way of the Cross it was with great awareness that Jesus came down from heaven to bring God’s salvation to our world.  To this end He became like us in all things but sin.  He is now stripped of all His garments.  This in a very real way is what the coronavirus is doing.  As with Jesus it is happening with the help of the powers that be, for Jesus it was the Sanhedrin and the Roman Army.  As I listen to people in the very limited windows that are open to us; I cannot but echo how much our lives have been stripped by the virus.  One echo that I could identify with, was one persons desire never to listen to the media in the morning.  It is just shocking the length they go to gather the worst news they can find.  Also, the deep, deep affliction of those isolated by the virus left abandoned and in pain as death draws closer.  As He is stripped of His garments we are stripped of our comforts, and our distractions, while especially our children were stripped of their school, their supports, their access to life and friends.  For others the opportunity to find work and also to access the life of the sacraments.  Jesus is stripped.

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father.

The Eleventh Station:  Jesus is nailed to the Cross.  “We adore thee O Christ and we praise thee, because by your Holy Cross you have redeemed the World”.

Options and choices are now so limited.  The sponge and the vinegar are galling and yet offered as a comfort.  Our lives can echo these realms of loss.  The memory of my dad with his constant pain, ministering as a priest opens ones eyes to deep afflictions.  The nails signify His abandonment, there is no way He could crucify Himself – yet He is God.   He could put a stop to it .  So often the afflictions in our lives as in the Gospel reading today are so self afflicted.  In the Gospel of St John 5: 1-3, 5-16.  Jesus heals the man on the sabbath and tells him to take up his mat and walk.   The powers that be, and they are the religious ones, are down to him.  He is breaking the sabbath.  The flow out of the vaccine is a very important element to us returning to a stable life.  Interruptions are a challenge and this to my family in Ireland at the moment has become a disturbance.  With the help of Him who loves us and died for us, obstacles will be overcome.        Jesus bows His Head and dies.    Father,    Son     and Holy Spirit.

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father.

National Day of Reflection for COVID-19, Tuesday 23rd March 2021

We welcome the designation of Tuesday 23rd March as a National Day of Reflection to mark the anniversary of the first national lockdown with a minute’s silence at midday and doorstep vigils of light at 8pm.  A statement from the Presidency of the Bishops’ Conference can be found below.

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Booking of Masses for Holy Week

Booking of Masses for Holy Week:

St Wilfrid’s Church                                                       St George’s Church

Palm Sunday       10.30am                                Palm Sunday                     9am

Holy Thursday                5pm                            Holy Thursday 7pm

Good Friday 3pm Good Friday 3pm

Saturday Easter Vigil 8pm Saturday Easter Vigil 6pm

Easter Sunday 10.30am Easter Sunday 9am

It is essential to book your place at Mass through the parish office on 841504 or email [email protected] for any of the above Masses.  The deadline for booking is Friday 19th March 2021.  We will try and accommodate everyone over this period to the best that we can during this difficult time, and will contact you by telephone or email to confirm your place.

Deacon John Writes

I am sure you all know that this Sunday is Mothering Sunday. Mothers, we honour you this day and every day. We thank you, and we thank God for giving you to us and for endowing you with the spirit of giving, caring, nurturing, loving, and (when necessary) letting go.

There is a prayer which is one you can say at any time, but, it is very appropriate for Mothering Sunday, while quietly giving thanks for your own mother. “God our Mother and Father, rid our hearts and minds of all feelings and attitudes which do not reflect your loving kindness. Bless all mothers. Reward them for their sacrifice and their faithfulness to your image. We thank you for our mothers and for that part of you we have received through them. Finally, we pray that you will never let us forget how much our mothers and wives have given us. We ask this, emboldened by your Holy Spirit, through Christ our Lord. Amen

Fr Rory Writes

The Eighth Station: Jesus speaks to the women of Jerusalem.  “We adore thee O Christ and we praise thee, because by your Holy Cross you have redeemed the World”.

Jesus you came down from heaven to carry out the will of the Father which was, “that none should be lost”.  You have shared in our human experience and you know of our afflictions.  Our journey through life is described in the Psalm 22 “Though I walk through the valley of darkness no evil would I fear.  For you are there with your crook and your staff, with these you give us comfort”. During these times we have dramatically experienced through the coronavirus the domain of darkness.  Because of modern communication we are particularly aware of death as it is experienced by those who have died from the virus and so it rightly established fear.

This fear should generate within us the beginning of wisdom. So our adherence to good directions given to us is truly important. The fruits of wisdom presents us with the challenge of living through your grace, love and care for us in keeping with the dignity, gifts and challenges of life.  With our children returning to school and the necessities of life that help us to embrace life in its fulness, we rely upon your presence with us.  As we make the way of the Cross the mystery of suffering remains with us, but we ask you to give us the strength to carry our crosses, to surrender our lives to you, and to live our lives as fully as possible.

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father.

The Nineth Station:  Jesus falls for the Third Time.  “We adore thee O Christ and we praise thee, because by your Holy Cross you have redeemed the World”.

Does it ever let up?  So often in life when it rains it pours.  For one, the media are an embodiment of this.  Up until the pandemic I was an enthusiast for Newsnight etc, though waning.  After the first few weeks in isolation, it had gone off my agenda as indeed much of the media, a great thanks be to God for “Spring Watch”.

The journey of Jesus to Calvary with its moments on the way; Simon of Cyrene, His Mother Mary, Veronica, the Women of Jerusalem, ultimately the Roman Soldiers, His falls along the way to the Cross and the Nails ……. a litany beyond measure.  As I look back on my journey of life with its many falls, I still try to speak of silver linings.  Does it ever let up?, I truly hope so.  I mentioned in the beginning, almost as a child recalling my dad doing the Stations of the Cross and the hours upon hours of pain that he suffered in his life.  So I hope it imbues us with the spirit “those are the trials through which we triumph, by the power of His spirit living within us”, and at this time part of my prayer goes out to the Queen and the Royal Family.

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father.

How Live Simply helps Catholic communities to protect our Common Home while living more fully:

Tuesday, 9 March 11am-12pm

We have reached 85 livesimply awarded communities and there are a similar number of livesimply communities actively working on the Award in spite of the pandemic.
With Maria Elena Arana, livesimply Award Coordinator at CAFOD, Fr Rob Esdaile, parish priest at livesimply parish Our Lady of Lourdes Thames Ditton and Ellen Teague, livesimply Award assessor, learn more about how your parish or school could join us.Register to join us

Fr Rory Writes

The Fifth Station:  Simon of Cyrene helps Jesus.  “We adore thee O Christ and we praise thee, because by your Holy Cross”.

So often I say two things:  The consolation that this station brings to Jesus, the help that is given to Him is also a great consolation for us.  On the way of the cross at the Second Station where I pondered that I knew “I should do better”, giving way to the forgiveness that Jesus brings.  Now the realisation “we can all do better”.  After the lockdown when we will return to “the life of the church”, then we will genuinely seek to do better.  This involves us believing and sharing together in a life of faith with the fruits of this in our experiencing what was the outcome for the early Christian community – “see how they love one another”.

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father

The Sixth Station:  Veronica wipes the face of Jesus.

Last week Deacon John presented us with the dramatic story presented on the internet by Dr Peggy Hartshom, about a women who glimpsed the mystery of her unborn child.  Circumstances had brought about this dramatic encounter.  She was amazed to see the perfectly formed boy, the tiny legs and arms moving in her womb.  All of a sudden, Dr Hartshom’s assistant said, “reach out and take your baby’s hand”.  The women raised her hand and touched the monitor.  As if by some divine cue, the baby stretched out his arm to the exact place on his mom’s hand.  On the screen his tiny fingers met hers.  The women underwent a transformation and kept her baby.  Surely we recognise that there is a mystery inside each one of us – the mystery of the image of God.  We see this in a very special way when His sacred face was revealed to her “Veronica wipes the face of Jesus”.

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father

The Seventh Station:  Jesus falls a Second Time.  “We adore thee O Christ and we praise thee, because by your Holy Cross you have redeemed the World”.

Back down to earth with a bang.  The seventh station often has this reference to our lives.  Following moments of grace is a reality in life that very often we are again confronted with the ordinary, the normal, the difficulties of life.  On the horizon now is the most special season of Holy Week.  Please God, this is coinsiding with our thoughts of returning to church.  This has been helped by the roll out of vaccines, and while very much to be welcomed alongside the return of our children to school, this highlights the circumstances that we are living under and that there may be a spike in the number of people catching it.  So again; Firstly, it is good to be back, and welcome.  So as parish priest that is to all our parishioners.  Secondly, the great necessity to adhere to the guidelines for the safeguarding of our services.  So it will be essential for all to apply through the Parish Office to book a place at Masses during Holy Week.   We may have to have a draw for places, because stewarding is an essential requirement and I am responsible for this.  Just as Jesus, because he is human, again falls under the weight of the cross.  So the weight of the cross has been heavy in our journey. 

One our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory be to the Father

Deacon John Writes

Sometime in Lent I invite us all to pray for forgiveness for those sins which we know we have committed during the difficult times we have been through with the coronavirus pandemic. During Lent, we are given another chance to repent and return to our Heavenly Father’s love. Below is one suggestion for carrying this out on one’s own, or as a family, based on an idea I found on the internet. (I leave it to individuals to adjust the words “We, us, our, I etc., as appropriate)

This reading from 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 serves as an introduction: So whoever is in Christ is a new creation: the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come. And all this is from God, Who has reconciled us to Himself through Christ and given us the ministry of reconciliation, namely, God was reconciling the world to Himself in Christ, not counting their trespasses against them and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation. So we are ambassadors for Christ, as if God were appealing through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. For our sake, He made Him to be sin Who did not know sin, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him. The word of the Lord. R: Thanks be to God (Prayer) Lord Jesus, we ask Your pardon and forgiveness for not bearing witness to you by our lives, spreading through our words, deeds, and attitudes Your love, mercy, kindness, spirit of forgiveness and service to those around us.  We pray to the Lord.  “Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner.”  

Now call to mind the goodness of God our Father, and acknowledge our sins, so that we may receive His merciful forgiveness. “I confess to almighty God, and to you, my brothers and sisters, that I have greatly sinned, in my thoughts and in my words, in what I have done and in what I have failed to do, through my fault, through my fault, through my most grievous fault; therefore I ask blessed Mary ever Virgin, all the Angels and Saints, and you, my brothers and sisters, to pray for me to the Lord our God.”

(Prayer) My God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart. In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good, I have sinned against You Whom I should love above all things. I firmly intend, with Your help, to do penance, to sin no more, and to avoid whatever leads me to sin. Our Saviour Jesus Christ suffered and died for us. In His name, my God, have mercy. Amen. 

(Concluding prayer) O Lord our God, look upon our weakness with compassion and forgiveness that we might be made whole again. Cleanse us of our sins, and free us from the prison of guilt, that we may live in the promised joy of Your salvation. May God the Father, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Spirit Who gives life to all, grant us grace and mercy, now and forever, Amen.

Deacon John Writes

In the gospel for the second Sunday of Lent we hear the Transfiguration story where Jesus is revealed in His Heavenly glory. We encounter transformation every time we receive a sacrament. Baptism transforms us into children of God and heirs of heaven.

Confirmation transforms us to be brave witnesses of and warriors for Christ. Reconciliation transforms sinners to saints.   In every Mass, the bread and wine we offer on the altar are transformed into the crucified and risen, living body and blood of Jesus. Every Mass should be our source of Heavenly strength against temptations, and renew us during Lent. Our Communion with the living Jesus should be the source of our daily “transfiguration,” transforming our minds and hearts so that we may do more good, through service to others.  The transfiguration gives us a message of encouragement and hope in times of doubt and during our dark moments of despair and hopelessness, pain and suffering. The thought of our future transformation in Heaven will surely help us to reach out to God and to listen to His words: “This is my beloved son.” During this Lent let us offer our Lenten sacrifices to the Lord so that through the acceptance of our daily crosses, we may grow closer to him in his suffering, may share in the carrying of his cross and finally may share the glory of his second “transfiguration,” namely, his Resurrection. 

I found the following material on the internet about a Dr. Peggy Hartshorn who tells a dramatic story about a woman who glimpsed the mystery of her unborn child. The young woman was seeking an abortion. She simply could not handle having a baby at this time. But she agreed to an ultrasound. When the baby appeared on the screen, the woman was amazed to see the perfectly formed body, the tiny legs and arms moving inside her womb. But the woman kept saying, “No, no, I have to have an abortion.” Dr. Hartshorn knew that seventy-five percent of women who see an ultrasound decide to keep their baby – but that a quarter, nevertheless, still have the abortion. It seemed like this woman would be in that twenty-five percent. All of sudden, Dr. Hartshorn’s assistant said, “Reach out and take your baby’s hand.”  The woman raised her hand and touched the monitor. As if by some divine cue, the baby stretched out his arm to the exact place of his mom’s hand. On the screen his tiny fingers met hers. The woman underwent a transformation and kept her baby. Surely we recognise that there is a mystery inside each one of us – the mystery of the image of God.